Why is it, that single mother have two go through so much trouble raising teenage girls who are disrespectful?

what i mean by that is, they want to be adults before their time. I always tell my daughter, you need to enjoy being a child as long as you can. Once you start having children of your own, there's just more than one mouth to feed ,clothing, ect......Why is it, that single mother have two go through so much trouble raising teenage girls who are disrespectful?
You have not done enough to teach them responsibility. Once they see how bad it sucks to have a responsibility they will be plenty OK with being just a kid. Worst case scenario, they start acting more responsible.Why is it, that single mother have two go through so much trouble raising teenage girls who are disrespectful?
I have 3 daughters 2 of which are teenagers. One of them is really disrepectful at times , she drives me to tears.


Its hard for single mums as they have no one to back up what they say , and it hurts when the childs bad cause you put so much effort into bringing them up properly. The way kids speak to the parents generally is quite bad these days , and they get away with it at school too
all parents have trouble raising daughters who are disrespectful, not just just single mothers.





Think back, did you listen when your mother gave you that advice? None of us did, and none of our grandkids will either, as much as everything changes some things just stay the same.
I just saw a sign at a gift shop yesterday that would be perfect for you to give your daughters...it said:





TEENAGERS are you tired of being hassled by unreasonable parents?


Now is the time for action! Leave home and start paying your own way...while you still know everything!
I know how they feel. It's like, the whole world is coming down on you, and trying to keep you a baby forever. You are right that they need to enjoy being a child. My eleven year old sister HATES to be called a kid...but she doesn't understand how cruel the world is to adults. They have to work their butts off, and deal with major stress...especially single Moms. Some married people have trouble raising teens too. What you need to do, is to set some boundries for them. If they are disrespectful, GROUND them...take away their cell phones, tv time..etc. Start treating them like babies, because they should know that being disrespectful IS babish. They deserve it, and YOU don't deserve being disrespected. If I were your child, I'd respect you in every way - you know why? Because your trying to feed, clothe, and keep a roof over my head.
I think it is because when a child is raised by a single parent, they are somewhat forced to grow up sooner. Not being sexually active or drinking or anything, but they must mature a slight bit faster. There is only one income so they must get over the fact that they can't have this or they can't have that. I matured rather fast. But in my situation, I had to.





Hope this helps you!