How to have a good relationship for teenage girl?

i just want tips on how to have a good relationship. i also want to know what to do about this... he asked me to do something im not comfortable with, and when i say that he accuses me of being selfcentered. i want to make him happy, but im scared to do that. and i feel horrible. what do i do?How to have a good relationship for teenage girl?
Don't let him pressure you into doing anything that you aren't comfortable with, that you know is wrong, or that you will regret later. He's being self-centeredHow to have a good relationship for teenage girl?
First off, you're a teenage girl... So any relationship you have till you're about 19 is gunna be drama and tears, or when you are matured enough to realize that teenage dating should be about fun and about learning what things you like/dislike in a guy instead of trying to find ';love'; when you're going to change into a very different person over the next couple years...





But anyway, obviously your boyfriend doesn't respect you enough to put your comfort before his selfish wants, and therefore, you should dumb him. Any guy that tries to pressure you into sleeping with him and tells you your self-centered when you're not is a prick.





Honestly, the best advice (discount ALL advice from other people in high school who have no REAL clue what they're talking about) is to just date and have fun. Don't try and find your husband or your one true love, use this time to figure out what kind of a person you're looking for. Just go on dates, maybe have a couple boyfriends so you can find out what you like and dislike...





For example, you've just learned that you do NOT want a boyfriend who pressures you, so when you have your next relationship, you can look for a guy who WON'T or can recognize it when it starts.
If you as me I don't anyone is ready for a relationship during their teenage years. I honestly didn't know how to have a relationship when I was a teen. I believe the best thing to do is not allowing your partner to pressure you into sex or anything you don't want to do. If your partner cannot respect that you are not ready to have sex or do whatever it they may want you to do, they really don't love you.
As a teenager, the only people you want to keep happy is your parents and yourself. You have no obligation to keep anyone else happy. You let your boyfriend know that you are not in the habit of doing things that make you feel uncomfortable. And if he has a problem with that, then he needs to chillax!!


If you are talking about what I think you are, don't feel horrible because he is not being considerate of your feelings.
ok from what i know to have a good relationship is dont have sex right away(idk if you do or not, just saying), dont text or call them to much, idk what else, those are just some things i learned from friends. oh, and if he wants you to do something your not comfortable with then dont do it, if hes right for you he'll respect that, if not move on. Dont waste your time on someone who doesnt respect you or care what you say and think. well i hope this helps some =)
If he's asking you to do something you're not comfortable with, then he doesn't respect/care for you.





Drop him. If he can't accept that you have your own personal beliefs and morals, he's an immature guy who's not worthy of you.





That being said, you're a teenager. You should be focusing on school and who you are, not guys. You have your whole life for guys. Guys at this age are interested in one thing, and one thing only.
First be your self and if he doesn't except that then maybe you guys are not meant to be...not trying to sound negative. And with the thin about you not being comfortable DONT FEEL BAD you have the right to say no so when your ready then go for it but until then dont get pressured into something you dont wnt to do because i feel in the end you might just regret
uh honey remeber one thing: You are your first priority and to help this you might wanna do what makes you happy not him. Him might need to realize that you arent comfortable and be like hey boi if you wanna be my bo then respect the fact i dont want to do that. be unfront because then you will be the one in the end hurtin. believe me


ps. im not black ;)
If making him happy makes you miserable or frightened then don't try to make him happy. Any person who will belittle you if you won't do things for them isn't worth much. He sounds too pushy to me. Tell him to back off or you'll have to reconsider your relationship.
thats their favorite excuse...BLAMING YOU. when in reality its them being self centered. everyone told me i would regret losing my virginity or doing oral sex and i didnt listen and guess what? i wish that I was as pure as the virgin mary because then I could have shared everything I have with my fiance but I can never do that because i cant go back in time. Keep being pure.
find a guy that makes u comfortable, he will show u what a good relationship is, find a mature guy, but one that is your age.





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Giv it a try, if you wana make him happy!.





if my girlfriend wanted me to do somethink that i wasnt comfortable, id atleast giv it ago once. Just so she knew i tryed!.
not to be mean but if i can guss what he ask he's the one being selfash not you


if he was get for you he would respect you


and you sound to nice to be with him!!


sorry
Simply don't do anything that you don't feel comfortable with! He's not worth it if he makes you feel bad.
dump him, he wants to do something u dont want, u tell him he still insists. he does no know u, and does not seem to care about what u want.
if he presures u dump him





but if u really love him, share how you feel about the hole situation
What does he want you to do?