Take them to the hospital let them listen to all those babies scream for about half hour. Maybe drop in a new mom let her tell them about the pain. Let a dad sit there and talk about how his wife almost died. Or see a new mother that has no one because the guy left.
For me babysitting/working in my moms day care center was also a good deterrent for having a baby or having sex unprotected. I didn't want one of those kids running around or crying all night. Bad enough I had to stay there with them for a few hours.
Let them see life isn't gonna be the same with a baby. No late nights no more friends over. No car at 16. Stuff like that.
I think living it, is alot better then mom and dad saying don't do it.What are the lesson you should advise for the teenagers about teenage pregnancy?
-if you know any kids that were born out of teen pregnancy, point that out and talk to the person about how they felt.
-go to church and ask your pastor or something.
-show how it can ruin the child, mother's, and fathers life partially?
-stdsWhat are the lesson you should advise for the teenagers about teenage pregnancy?
Have them visit stressed out teen moms just for observation, not for visiting. Also, make sure they understand that the only way to not get pregnant is to not have sex. All birth control methods can fail.
I would give them lots of lessons on safe sex. Like someone else said, not just pregnancy! Lots of STDs.. But with pregnancy. The facts that how are they going to afford to take care of a baby, supply the needs for a baby, have a home of your own for the baby. How it will cut their ';teenage'; years short and no more partying all night and staying out late. Harder for finding a job going to school. It just makes lots of things harder at such a young age. By waiting till they are older they have already went through all those life experiences and are much more mature and are able to adapt to having a child. I think all schools should have those robot babies for kids to take care of. I never had them in school but I think they are the best! I had my son just before I was 21. I was out of school, but things were still rough. Lived with parents, no ';college parties';. I went to a local college and lived at home. Don't get me wrong I wouldn't change a thing! My son is the greatest thing that happened to me, but back then I would look at people my age and I grew mature a LOT quicker than they did.
I think it's better to teach them about safe sex. Because pregnancy is not the only life long consequence. You could contract AIDS or some other STD.
Although when advising kids about pregnancy, I would explain the options to them. adoption, abortion, and keeping the baby. in full details, pros and cons of each option.
I heard that in my school, in the last year, around 16 years old, you get a baby doll for a few days.
It's like a baby, but plastic.
It cries all the time, and somehow, it pees.
So you have to change it's nappies, lul it to sleep (somehow that works as well) and do other stuff.
This normally teaches the older girls that having a baby at a young age isn't so good, because you'd like to go out with friendss, but you have that 'thing' at home that you have to look after.
I wouldn't call it a 'thing' because i love babies, but children over 5 annoy me.
Explian All THe Options Open To Them And Tell Not Not To Be Scared Your There For Them If They Need You. Becoming A Mum As A Teenager Is A Life Changing Situation But With The Right Support Can Be Easy.
Also Then Explian About Contrception, And The Effects Unprotected Sex Can Have Cause As Said Above Becoming Pregnant Int The Only Life Time Changing Situation
Just buy them a book or something..
They don't wanna be told a massive speach.
how your life will change, that its not about them anymore but 24/7 about the baby...stds that dont go away! maybe show them photos of the worst case scenarios of stds - just google the images that should be a turn off..you should start off by getting them to write a list of all the things they want to accomplish in their lives..once they have the list then say something like ok so you want to travel the world when you leave school/college so how are those plans going to fit in with you having a child? things like that.
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